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		<description><![CDATA[My friend, Zack Blair, recommended I read this one. After reading it, this is another book that should be required reading for everyone who aspires to lead in any capacity. 
This book doesn&#8217;t focus on principles on how to lead, but rather focuses on you. It&#8217;s more of a self-assessment book. It teaches that we [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #000000;">My friend, <a href="http://www.zackblair.net">Zack Blair</a>, recommended I read this one. After reading it, this is another book that should be required reading for everyone who aspires to lead in any capacity. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">This book doesn&#8217;t focus on principles on how to lead, but rather focuses on you. It&#8217;s more of a self-assessment book. It teaches that we all have a dark side to our leadership that&#8217;s developed in our lives through our upbringing and experiences that will cause us to seek and pursue success for the wrong motives. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">If these motives go unchecked and aren&#8217;t dealt with, ultimately, if we reach what we thought would be success, we won&#8217;t be satisfied, and the outcome is usually a moral fall, misuse of people, or some other less than ideal outcomes. </span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">This book will help you identify your dark side and provide the steps to overcoming it.<br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;">Must read for any leader.<br />
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Final Grade: 10/10    <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Overcoming-Dark-Side-Leadership-Confronting/dp/0801068355/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1264174352&amp;sr=8-2">Buy it Here</a></strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Overcoming-Dark-Side-Leadership-Confronting/dp/0801068355/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1264174352&amp;sr=8-2"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2091" title="41+4Z+wuWQL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA240_SH20_OU01_" src="http://bubbasmith.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/41+4Z+wuWQL._BO2204203200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-clickTopRight35-76_AA240_SH20_OU01_.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="240" /></a>Some Highlights: </span></p>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">Personal dysfunction, in one form or another, can often  serve as the driving force behind an individual&#8217;s desire  to achieve success as a leader.</span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">The problem arises from the fact that success is not something one  can have or possess. True success is a state of being not having.</span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">• The &#8220;dark side&#8221; refers to our inner urges, compulsions,  motivations, and dysfunctions that drive us toward success  or undermine our accomplishments.</span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>The 5 Dark Sides of Leaders are: The Compulsive Leader, The Narcissitic Leader, The Paranoid Leader, The Passive Aggressive Leader, and the Co-Dependent Leader</strong></span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">The sooner we stop denying our dark  side&#8217;s existence the sooner we will stop blaming the devil, our  parents, bad breaks, and every other possible reason for our  struggles. Blaming others is one of the symptoms that denial  is taking place. It is always easier to deny we have any problem  if we can lay the blame for our shortcomings at somebody else&#8217;s feet.</span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">Any attempts to overcome the dark  side apart from the application of spiritual truth about our true  position and identity in Christ will end in failure.
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